I know that everyone knows that I was getting a divorce but I am not now. I know that Rob has changed. Yes it's going to take time to have us both heal. I tell my self I am a fighter and I can make my marriage work. Last Saturday I went to the cancer relay for life and I got this quote and I want to share it with you. Divorce is not always the option, but both parties need to be willing to help each other.
"To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to do."
Kahlil Gibran (1883-1931)
As I read that quote people need to understand the heart and mind of a person, and always look what they did right. Not judging them, people in this life our not perfect and we all make mistakes in this life. Marriage does take effort and yes it is not easy for anyone. But as look at I try and trust in my Father in Heaven. I just wanted to tell Rob I love him and I forgive him.