Friday, July 17, 2009

Marriage

I know that everyone knows that I was getting a divorce but I am not now. I know that Rob has changed. Yes it's going to take time to have us both heal. I tell my self I am a fighter and I can make my marriage work. Last Saturday I went to the cancer relay for life and I got this quote and I want to share it with you. Divorce is not always the option, but both parties need to be willing to help each other.
"To understand the heart and mind of a person, look not at what he has already achieved, but at what he aspires to do."
Kahlil Gibran (1883-1931)
As I read that quote people need to understand the heart and mind of a person, and always look what they did right. Not judging them, people in this life our not perfect and we all make mistakes in this life. Marriage does take effort and yes it is not easy for anyone. But as look at I try and trust in my Father in Heaven. I just wanted to tell Rob I love him and I forgive him.

3 comments:

Dave and Jaime said...

Wow Anjalee... that will be really good if you can work it all out. You are right none of us are perfect, and I am sure it will be a difficult path for both of you to make it right. I think you are in the right mind, and that with the help of the Atonement you can both be healed and move forward as the Lord wants. Congrats and good luck for a good future!!

cole'njacee said...

it was so great to see your beautiful face on sunday anj! i wanna stop by sometime, i noticed your email on the list at Beadles Beads - do you bead? that's my new favorite hobby, i go there probably once a week, i'd love to do that with you. i resent that invite for our blog (click on VIEW BLOG), let me know if you didn't get it.

Hollie said...

You truly inspire me. You have so much strength it is unbelievable. I hope to see you at our high school reunion on August 22nd in Lehi at the North Stake Rec. Property.